How to choose Mr. Right
So, you feel you’ve seen it all. A woman meets the man of her dreams (as she would often describe him during the first few months of their relationship!), they date, and before you know it, that all-too-perfect man becomes Mr pain or Mr Know-it-all. Others try to revive the relationship but as statistics show, most go down the drain.
Before that all-too-painful relationship ensues, there are ways to prevent it. If you are already in one, here are some pieces of advice to make your relationship a slice of heaven (or wake you up, whichever is applicable!).
To be able to make the right decisions in relationships, you must first ‘know’ what is right. If you have to choose to marry or stay single for a few years more, what would you choose? Both choices are good in their own right, but choose which one is better for you.
If you are already in a relationship and your partner argues with you, do you retort with hurtful words or bite your tongue and let it pass out of love for him? Doing what is right or making the right decision requires a great deal of selfcontrol and a high level of maturity. When it comes to romantic decisions, my friend, there are so many options. But, the king of them all is this: ‘Do not have expectations in relationships or you are bound to be heartbroken’.
It is not totally bad to set standards in a relationship, but once you set a grid that the significant other ‘must’ follow then that’s where the trouble begins. Once what you want is unfulfilled, your doubt would creep on the window and love would start crawling out of the door.
Oprah Winfrey had once said that for people who want to be in a relationship, just look for someone who would supplement you, not one who would complete
you. Completion is hard to achieve but balance or harmony is an achieveable human feat.
To cap it all, what is important is to know what you really want in a relationship; be able to give way if your partner sucks once in a while; be ready to forgive when offended; and be a living proof of what you would want your partner to be.
You see, respect begets respect, trust brings about trust, and love sows love.
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